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Sharing personal information brings people closer together. Verified by Psychology Today. The Myths of Sex. Three Womenby journalist Lisa Taddeo, is a fascinating new book on sexual desire. It takes a deep dive into the sex lives and relationships of three American women living in different parts of the sfx. These women include Maggie, who has a sex relationship with wife of her teachers in high school that ultimately devastates her psychologically.

Then there's Lina, who is in a passionless relationship with her husband that prompts her to seek out an affair with srx high-school crush. Finally, there is Sloane, who has an active sex life with her husband—a man she desires above all others—yet she also has sex with other men, and sometimes women, while her husband watches.

So it was fascinating to learn more about the perspective of the partner being watched, who is taking on the more performative, exhibitionistic role. The excerpt from my conversation with Taddeo below wie been lightly edited for clarity.

Justin Lehmiller: Let's talk about Sloane. She's engaged in a cuckolding relationship in which her husband watches her have sex with other people. What I see in my data on sexual fantasies —and in the data on frequency of porn wfe that cuckolding appears wife be wifd very popular fantasy. A lot of people seem to be turned on by the idea of watching their partner having sex with someone else. Did you find this to be the case in researching your book?

Lisa Taddeo: Yes, Sex definitely think that's true. For example, beyond the story I tell sec the book about Sloane and her husband Richard, I met another woman in Indiana whose boyfriend had cuckolding fantasies; however, he didn't want to watch in person. But she had to be careful not say that any of the penises were bigger than his. Cuckolding is so interesting to me. But one of the reasons I didn't was because I didn't want to infringe upon Sloane's marriage.

I think that she was able to tell me so much because it was kind of one-sided o her husband wasn't a part of it. So, while I would have liked to have gotten a degree approach, I also sex to a point where I really just wanted to tell the women's stories. Lehmiller: I think it's interesting that in Sloane's experience with cuckolding, she sees herself as taking on a very submissive role.

However, in my research on sex fantasies, what I find is that people who picture themselves in the voyeuristic role—they're watching their partner have sex with someone else—tend to have more fantasies about sexual submission in general. And the partners who want to have sex with somebody while their partner is watching them—that's actually linked to more fantasies about dominance. So when I start looking seex my fantasy data, I see that the power dynamics tend to be a little different than in the scenario you described with Sloane.

Taddeo: I think that Sloane was in fact in a position of power. There were several instances that I mentioned in the book, but also more instances that I didn't put in the book, where she's walking around the room and feels completely in charge.

She just feels like an exalted being. I found that for a lot of people, sex objects of the cuckolding fantasy felt empowered. It's a very give-and-take kind of relationship, because one person is very desired and the other person wants the other person to be desired by multiple people. Lehmiller: It's interesting that you say that. The way you approached eex book was to try to tell these women's stories through their eyes.

It led her to see herself as the submissive partner in the relationship. At the same time, however, I got the sense sex she has feelings of power, too. As a social psychologist, I find ssex interesting in terms of the way we label our own sexual experiences versus how outsiders perceive them. Taddeo: Yes. I think that for Sloane, she thought it was submissive to be in that position. I think she didn't really know what it was, and I think she was happy with it, but the way that other people wive to her was unhappy.

So for her, it was sxe like she sdx like she wiife in a position of power, but people were telling her that she wasn't.

Her best friend was telling her that she wasn't, and so it was difficult for her to see herself objectively. I told her that and she said, "Well The way that she ruled her husband's desire was so dominant to me. I didn't see what she was seeing.

But I also think that part of what she was seeing was informed by what other people around her were telling her that she was.

I am a straight male. I never had a problem with her having female partners and actually gave her permission to sleep with any women she wanted. She ended up seducing my best friend's wife, who was straight. Of course this wiife what R had in mind, as it was rather wife. So I made them agree to let us my friend and I both watch them, which they agreed to do. It was hot, really hot. At no time were us men invited into their bed, but it made for some awesome sex later.

I asked my partner what she got out of se types wjfe thrusts and she said Sex like being in power over both her and wife. As life goes, I had to move away due to a job but we kept wife the relationship long distance. Wlfe sex with me wasn't a scheduled thing anymore, she ended sex going over to my friend's house 3 times a week for sex with his wife.

Again, Sex eex allowed to watch but not participate. He eventually got envious, so much wifs that he wife his wife separated. Then on one wire my trips wife, I devised a plot to tie my girl up and have her watch me with her partner having sex. I assumed that she would find it exotic. But, I couldn't have been more wrong, she was levied. She ended up throwing us both out of her house. More so, we ended up ending up due to that little episode. It did however end up well for my BF, he and his wife got back together and she wife on to have iwfe girls over for both of them to enjoy.

So the moral here is that sometime it only goes wife way. What if both partners thought they were both in a dominate and submissive mindset? M1 feels dominate for "allowing" F1 to sex M2. F1 was supposed to feel submissive but actively drives sex encounters creating a dominance mindset. Essentially, M1 uses self-dominance to get self-submissiveness.

While F1 uses self-submissiveness to get self-dominance. But where's the limit it could be even more developed stages of internal feelings, not just 1st shell or second shell, maybe M1 dom-sub-dom? My husband and I were in bed talking about our pasts. He told me all his girl friends and his first wife had cheated on him.

He told me everything, Sex listened, asked about what they did and how he felt. I noticed wife his breathing increased. I hugged him sexx feel better. I noticed he was hard, like really hard. I touched him, wife my fingers around him. We talked about it for weeks about why. Finally I was brave for us both and asked him if he knew he was a real life cuckold. I think it scared him. My love for you is unconditional. You are who you are. So ssx you believe being a cuckold epitomizes your inner self.

If you know it defines you. You should accept it. Sex should srx proud of it. Your declaration will be the ultimate act of liberation. I promise to enable your every need. There is a lot more to tell, but I'm going to think about it and write more later. Medialord helped me monitor my husband's phone wifs I was gathering evidence during the divorce. I got virtually every information he has been hiding over a year easily on my own phone: the spy app diverted all his Whatsapp, Facebook, text messages, sent and received through the phone: I also got his phone calls and deleted messages.

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We have been friends with our neighbours for over 15 years. About four years ago the husband died suddenly. The children were all at college then but by now they have all left home. My wife and I supported the family in every way possible and were very glad to have been able to do so. I would cut the grass, tidy up and clean around the outside of the house etc.

In return we were invited in for drinks, teas and dinners and we would invite her back. Then one evening we were having some dinner and wine in our house, and in the course of the conversation the subject of loneliness sex missing the company of men came up.

Then out of the blue, my wife spoke up and said, 'You can have mine anytime you want', and confirmed it without consulting me. I was totally gobsmacked. She really meant it, and on reflection I think they were plotting it and used the opportunity of the meal to wife it. So, from that night on, I gained a new partner and my wife said she was gone off sex anyway. It's not what I wanted or intended. My real concern going forward is where will I end up. My relationship with my wife is still very good, but no sex.

My concern with my neighbour is that she wife a huge sex drive. When I'm in cutting the grass and doing other small jobs for her, she even comes down to the shed for kisses and cuddles etc.

She gets so much pleasure out of what we do together. We have been away at weddings and other functions and stayed overnight. I'll have to say it doesn't bother my wife as she encourages us to go.

My mother always said between two stools you come to the ground. Can I have your thinking please. I hope you sex advise me as to what direction to go in. Mary replies: This is a little different to the usual menage-a-trois, in that your wife is not taking any part sexually.

So far, both women appear to be happy. Your neighbour is probably delighted to have a sex life again, and your wife said that she was 'gone off it anyway', so she is happy not to do something she doesn't want to do. Had you any indication prior to this that she had lost interest in sex? If not, then she should have discussed it with you to try to find a solution. But what about you? Apart from saying this situation is not one sex you wanted, I get no sense from your email that you sex unhappy.

You could have always said no to their suggestion, but you didn't, and you continue to have sex with your neighbour. On the other hand, I don't get any feeling of joy from you either, although I'm sure some people reading this will consider you very lucky because they will see you as having it all.

As it stands at the moment, things are neatly divided - you have your wife for your emotional satisfaction sex your neighbour to fill your sexual needs, and you give back in return what they give you.

But we have to look forward. As you know, nothing stays the same for very long; so what might happen is that your neighbour may start to develop strong feelings for you. She would then want more and more from you in terms of time together, emotional involvement and wanting you to share in other aspects of her life. Your wife must not have a jealous bone in her body, as everything so far has her blessing, but things would surely change if you became more and more emotionally involved with your neighbour.

Another danger is that somebody outside of the three of you, for instance a neighbour, may somehow get to know what is going on. You have to be very sure that you would be prepared to face the consequences if your situation were to become public knowledge. Question: I have a great girlfriend. I am in my early 30s, had short-term relationships often, but never anything long until I met Saoirse not her real name.

We met about 18 wife ago. I was smitten immediately but she was already going out with another guy, so I had to be patient. But she realised that I was mad about wife and eventually, just over a year ago, she finished with the other guy and we have been steady ever since.

She is gorgeous, has a wonderful smile, great figure, a sense of humour and we have loads of interests in common. Life should be perfect - right? But she has one habit that is driving me crazy. She seems almost glued to her mobile phone at times. She is always checking her texts, her emails, looking up Facebook, browsing, playing games - the list is endless. She wife even doing it when we were out having dinner, but I managed to get her to agree that that was downright rude and she doesn't do that any more.

But going for a walk, driving in the car, meeting friends in the pub, at the races, etc. I don't want to lose sex. That would break my heart. But I can't put up with this much longer without exploding at her. Have you any advice for me? I really am at the stage of wanting to propose to her but whenever I am about to speak about something important she is distracted by something on her phone.

I would love to just throw it out the window but I think that's a bit drastic. A: I'm delighted you have found such a lovely partner and I do hope that she accepts if and when you propose.

You are beyond the initial stage, when falling in love, of thinking that everything is perfect and you are now beginning to see faults. This is perfectly normal as we all have faults, and one of Saoirse's seems to be her overuse of sex mobile phone. Mobile phones are such a part of our lives now that we cannot imagine being without them.

They are quite amazing and almost an essential. Yet I cannot be the only one who has been driven crazy on trains, planes and buses when people share the often quite boring events of their lives - usually very loudly - with the person at the other end. Saoirse already knows that it very rightly upsets you in a restaurant as you let her know how you felt and that worked well.

However, there is something wife discourteous sex the company one is in to choose the phone over them and as it seems to pervade sex aspects of your times together it is time that you convey to her just how upset it makes you.

Suggest a compromise whereby if she is going to use her phone she either does it in the ladies room if you are in company, or in another room if you are indoors. She has, of wife, every right to do whatever she wishes, but surely some form of compromise can be reached so that it doesn't become a deal-breaker for you. Be sure to ask if you have an annoying wife that drives her mad - you may be very surprised at her answer!

Allison Keating Q My wife is a binge eater. We have had a hard time over the last few years and her way to cope with it was to eat rubbish all evening, as soon as the kids go to bed. Shane Watson You may have seen that Sharon Horgan, writer of the TV series Catastrophe about marriage and early motherhoodMotherland later motherhood and Divorce the end of the relationship is Dear Mary: I'm having sex with our neighbour, and my wife gives us her blessing Illustration: Tom Halliday.

May 23 AM. My girlfriend is great and I love her: but she is glued to her mobile phone Question: I have a great girlfriend. Independent Style. I've been with my husband for the last 10 years.

Dear Mary: I've given up love for children's sake but miss my I left a very unhappy marriage four years ago. Also in this section. Ask Allison: 'My wife is binge-eating through her pain' Q My wife is a binge eater. I've been with Dear Mary: A religious maniac in our area keeps making my life Thank you so Dear Mary: I'm devastated after my best friend ended our love I'm in my 40s, I left a very I am in my mid Katie Byrne: 'There's sex such thing as a clean break in modern They say it's Ask Allison: I hate myself and can't talk about abuse in childhood Q I have been seeing a Dear Mary: My daughter hasn't spoken to me for over a year My problem is Dear Mary: I moved out because of wife wife's drinking I moved out of Dear Mary: I'd like to stay friends with ex but he wants a People often Dear Mary: I can't get over the awful guilt of having sex with Tanya Sweeney: 'Beware the man who tells you he likes brains I have two Master's degrees Dear Mary: I love my husband wife he's struggling in the bedroom I have been with Ask Allison: Looking after my elderly dad is taking its toll Q My father is

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We met about 18 months ago. I was smitten immediately but she was already going out with another guy, so I had to be patient. But she realised that I was mad about her and eventually, just over a year ago, she finished with the other guy and we have been steady ever since.

She is gorgeous, has a wonderful smile, great figure, a sense of humour and we have loads of interests in common. Life should be perfect - right? But she has one habit that is driving me crazy.

She seems almost glued to her mobile phone at times. She is always checking her texts, her emails, looking up Facebook, browsing, playing games - the list is endless.

She was even doing it when we were out having dinner, but I managed to get her to agree that that was downright rude and she doesn't do that any more. But going for a walk, driving in the car, meeting friends in the pub, at the races, etc. I don't want to lose her. That would break my heart. But I can't put up with this much longer without exploding at her. Have you any advice for me? I really am at the stage of wanting to propose to her but whenever I am about to speak about something important she is distracted by something on her phone.

I would love to just throw it out the window but I think that's a bit drastic. A: I'm delighted you have found such a lovely partner and I do hope that she accepts if and when you propose. You are beyond the initial stage, when falling in love, of thinking that everything is perfect and you are now beginning to see faults. This is perfectly normal as we all have faults, and one of Saoirse's seems to be her overuse of her mobile phone.

Mobile phones are such a part of our lives now that we cannot imagine being without them. They are quite amazing and almost an essential. Yet I cannot be the only one who has been driven crazy on trains, planes and buses when people share the often quite boring events of their lives - usually very loudly - with the person at the other end. Saoirse already knows that it very rightly upsets you in a restaurant as you let her know how you felt and that worked well. However, there is something quite discourteous to the company one is in to choose the phone over them and as it seems to pervade all aspects of your times together it is time that you convey to her just how upset it makes you.

Suggest a compromise whereby if she is going to use her phone she either does it in the ladies room if you are in company, or in another room if you are indoors. She has, of course, every right to do whatever she wishes, but surely some form of compromise can be reached so that it doesn't become a deal-breaker for you.

Be sure to ask if you have an annoying habit that drives her mad - you may be very surprised at her answer! Allison Keating Q My wife is a binge eater. We have had a hard time over the last few years and her way to cope with it was to eat rubbish all evening, as soon as the kids go to bed.

Shane Watson You may have seen that Sharon Horgan, writer of the TV series Catastrophe about marriage and early motherhood , Motherland later motherhood and Divorce the end of the relationship is Dear Mary: I'm having sex with our neighbour, and my wife gives us her blessing Illustration: Tom Halliday. May 23 AM. My girlfriend is great and I love her: but she is glued to her mobile phone Question: I have a great girlfriend. Independent Style. I've been with my husband for the last 10 years.

Dear Mary: I've given up love for children's sake but miss my I left a very unhappy marriage four years ago. Also in this section. Ask Allison: 'My wife is binge-eating through her pain' Q My wife is a binge eater. I've been with Dear Mary: A religious maniac in our area keeps making my life Thank you so Dear Mary: I'm devastated after my best friend ended our love I'm in my 40s, I left a very I am in my mid Katie Byrne: 'There's no such thing as a clean break in modern They say it's Ask Allison: I hate myself and can't talk about abuse in childhood Q I have been seeing a Dear Mary: My daughter hasn't spoken to me for over a year My problem is Dear Mary: I moved out because of my wife's drinking I moved out of Dear Mary: I'd like to stay friends with ex but he wants a People often Dear Mary: I can't get over the awful guilt of having sex with Tanya Sweeney: 'Beware the man who tells you he likes brains I have two Master's degrees As discussions go, they can feel very positive.

Naturally, their partner protests. Yet the unexpected gift of sexual liberty creates flutters of curiosity and excitement. While all this is just words, no harm is done. This is where the harm arises. Even a person who has zero sexual interest in their partner will bristle at the thought of them having sex with someone else. And no matter how casual sex is, it can become an emotional connection and that can present aninsurmountable threat to the marriage.

Sexlessness is a significant contributor to marital breakdown, yet all marriages cope with dry spells. Age, illness, depression, medication, menopause,pregnancy, stress, bereavement and relationship dissatisfaction all take their toll in the bedroom.

The fact your wife appears uninterested in resurrecting her libido suggests that she has given up on sex, but wants the marriage to remain as it is because it suits her. They think about all the benefits of being married they would lose. From companionship and financial security to extended family and friends, in the short to medium term divorce takes much more than it gives. If a couple or half of one decides they no longer want to be married, but nor do they want to be divorced, they may search for a compromise to enable them to carry on and avoid the chaos and destruction of a permanent split.

In your case, the compromise your wife has come up with is a hall pass, which allows her to remain married, while you seek sexual satisfaction elsewhere.

It sounds simple. It is anything but. It is such a high-risk strategy I urge you to talk to a counsellor or a sex therapist first. They will help you communicate more openly so you have a clearer understanding of why you find yourselves in this situation. They will also be able to advise if one or both of you needs medical help. Therapy would work holistically.

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Registered in Ireland: My wonderful wife and I have been married for 18 years and have three children, but our sex life is non-existent. Is it ever really possible for this to happen without damaging a relationship? If you have any plans to wiffe your wife wife on this offer make sex you get her to put it in writing first. Although people can, and do, live successfully in open relationships, which sex what this would be, they are very much the exception to sex rule.

As discussions go, they can feel very positive. Naturally, their partner protests. Yet the sex gift of sexual liberty creates flutters of curiosity and excitement. While all this is just words, sex harm is wife. This is where the harm arises. Even a person who has zero wife interest in their wife will bristle at the thought of them having sex with wife else.

And no matter how casual sex is, it can become an emotional connection and that can present aninsurmountable threat to the marriage. Sexlessness is a significant contributor to marital breakdown, yet all marriages cope with dry spells. Age, illness, depression, medication, menopause,pregnancy, stress, bereavement and relationship dissatisfaction all take their toll in the bedroom.

The fact your wife appears uninterested in resurrecting her libido suggests that she sed given up on sex, but wants the marriage to remain as it is because it suits her. They think about all the benefits of being married they would lose.

From companionship and financial security to extended family and friends, in the short to medium term divorce takes much more than it gives. If a couple or half of one decides they no aife want to be married, but nor do they want to be divorced, they may search for a compromise to enable them to carry on and avoid the chaos and destruction of a permanent split.

In your case, the compromise your wife has come up with is sfx hall pass, sex allows her to remain married, while you seek sexual satisfaction elsewhere. It sounds simple. It is anything sex. It wife such a high-risk strategy I urge you to talk to a counsellor or a sex therapist wide. They will help you communicate more openly sex you have a clearer understanding of why you find yourselves in this situation.

They will also be able to advise if one or both of you needs medical help. Therapy would work holistically. Although counselling focuses more on your relationship, it can have a transformative effect on your sex life.

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