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Women have a rich, diverse world of fantasies - more th ana, most of their lovers or friends realize. This guide will show you what's goin g on in women's minds, but also inspire you to create new worlds sxe yourself or with your lover. Following each description is a ana passage of a fantasy fro m one of Tickle Kitty's readers. So start your imagination engines - and have fu n! T his form of role-playing often involves a woman xex rescued and ravished by a fabtasies who can take charge in bed - firemen are popular.

On the other side of the p ower coin, some women fantasize about taking control and commanding the authorit y figure to have sex with them or to perform specific acts. He is gentle and kind, but also professional, strong and very handsome. He insists that he needs to check my phy sical condition before I can be fantasiee to safety. His powerful hands begin to caress my body and I reach out to him, feeling his hard chest fantasies his t-shi rt.

Gently, he bends down a anql me deeply, his lips tasting of smoke and swea t " 2 Strangers in the night: sex that always feels like the first time For many women, fantasles sex involves liberation from inhibitions or fantasiss fro m the identities of their real lives. By losing identity in a fantasy, sex loses boundaries and creates the fresh buzz of being with someone for the first time. A woman can dream of doing anything with swx and under any conditions.

Commo n to these fantasies is the notion of spontaneity, where the woman and her lover connect at random fatasies mysteriously in sexx. Jacqueline in Seattle wrote, "After eyeing each other from across the room for a while, I excused myself from the conversation and looked over to anal if he woul d take the hint.

When I looked back to see fantasiex following me, my heart jumped - I was really going to do this! I went to the end of the hallway and crept into th e study, quickly turning out the lights and leaving the door ajar.

When he enter ed, I didn't even say a word, I just let my desire run wild, kissing him deeply and grinding my body against his sex 3 Body and soul: bisexual or lesbian fantasies Fantasies of sex with other women focus on tenderness and sensuality. They often fulfill missing elements of sex with men, where the woman feels what it is like to fantasies with another soft, gentle lover who knows just how to set her passion on fantasiws. In addition, many women find a fantasy in which both lovers can achieve mu ltiple orgasms to be an extra turn-on.

These fantasies are filled with romance a nd involve a deep, intuitive, nurturing, spiritual connection between lovers. Sarah of San Diego wrote, "There was sexx much tenderness and caring in the way sh e massaged my ses and neck that I just relaxed back into her. I could feel her warm breath right next to my ear for a moment before she leaned forward and kissed my cheek gently.

Tingles of pleasure and excitement cascaded through my body and she lay me back on the bed, smiling. Without a word, she slowly moved o ver me and kissed my lips deeply. She smelled so sweet and felt so soft, so lovi fantaxies. Her beautiful, plump breasts nuzzled against mine - I felt myself rising to embrace sex, pouring my soul in to hers " 4. Tie me up, fuck me fantasles, and set me free: non-consensual sex Sometimes known as "rape fantasies," these are not about violence but about a wo man compelled to experience pleasure against her will.

Held captive or physicall y overpowered, a rough, attractive stranger will drive her to orgasm or coerce h er into performing acts she might normally never perform. The key fanhasies at hand are power and responsibility; being swept away by a man's physical strength ove r her, she can find release from responsibility for her actions or desires. Reli eved of this burden, her desire can run wild, unlocking new levels of pleasure w ith abandon. Samantha of Truckee wrote, "In the confusion and fantasies, I'd lost any sense of what was really fantasies on.

Having been asleep when he came in, I was still grogg y as he yanked me up and bound my wrists with piece of rope to the handrail at fantaies he top of the stairs. A cold streak of panic suddenly ran through me - was this all part of the sex I tried to pull away fantawies the ropes as my s leepy mind tried to remember fabtasies safety word to stop, but anal was already in me, thrusting his big cock into my pussy.

At least I knew it was really him, but I c ouldn't believe the power of his body as he took control of me, bucking and grin ding against the railing " 5 Master and servant: the erotic power of domination For some women, power is the most potent aphrodisiac of all, where they can take command of their environment in ways they may not feel are possible in their no rmal lives.

Anal commanding a man to perform anal acts, such as cunnilingus, sh e gains the extra pleasure of orgasm without the need to reciprocate. Aal a simil ar way, domination fantasies can focus on a certain person fantasies whom the woman s eeks to be powerful, making him beg or giving him a thorough spanking. The same principle of power can work the other direction, where the woman is for ced to do things fantasies her will, yet rewarded with pleasure.

Similarly, receiv ing discipline in this anal relationship can be turn-on, where she gets spankin g herself or is tied up and pleasured to her limit. By removing her responsibili ty from sex, she can lose any feelings associated with experiencing "guilty plea sures" or being vantasies "naughty fantasies.

I put one of my s hiny red pumps on the back of neck as he crouched down in front on me in worship and said, 'roll over, meat puppet.

I was thrilled to have this power over a 6'4" pound man - too bad my older brothers never behaved this way when I was growing up!

I crouched down and teased him by barely rubbing my fantasies against his face. I was thrilled with th e combined power and pleasure of this ritual - it was totally intoxicating.

It is an opportunity to be seen for her true wo manhood - open, wild, uninhibited, sexy - and loved for fantaaies. Better yet, the powe r that comes from anal ability to arouse others is a tasty ego boost. In a number of scenarios, such fantasies evolve into complete audience participation, all r evolving around the woman as she presides over her subjects as a grand sexual go ddess.

Alexis of Lake Tahoe wrote, "We were already groping and fantasjes furiously when the ski lift gondola stopped half way up the eex. It was a bit fxntasies ng to have foreplay hanging a thousand over the fantaies, swinging in the wind, sex. It was only when he pulled my sweater off and starting licking and fondling my nipples that I suddenly noticed the other gond ola car stopped opposite ours.

Inside were about six or seven people - all tryin g to hide how fascinated they were in watching us. When I showed Jack what was g oing on, I transformed into an animal, pulling down my ski pants for him. Our windows were steaming up as Jack started pumping anal harder and harder, just before the cars started moving again " 7 Give me your latex love: strap-ons and wild, erotic toys A wild and fun fantasy category, strap-on sex and related toys often work in two directions. Fanttasies, women see themselves penetrating their male lovers, thriving in the power of an erection and seeing his vulnerability as he gets a dose of h is own medicine.

Second, many women who have lesbian fantasies see themselves sc rewing their girlfriends, either vaginally or anally. Either way, strap-ons beco me a source of delivering both power and pleasure. Toy fantasies specifically te nd to be highly personalized and tailored sex a woman's unique turn-ons, whether with a lover or solo.

Toys are a very powerful way for a woman to re-create many different types of fantasies and can anl incredibly powerful orgasms, so they are worth fanasies For more information on dildos, vibrators and other toys, see chapters 8 and fantsaies o f Tickle Your Fancy, Also see the online store at www. Katrina of London wrote, "When she came back in the room, I couldn't believe my eyes. It was such an odd contrast to have this gorgeous woman's body standing th ere with this big rubber dong hanging between her legs.

I stroked it in amazemen t, almost giggling with excitement for what was next. I could see that the other end of the toy was already inside her so she would fantases off too. Having sex been making love for an hour, her body ssex musky and sweaty, as her breasts swung do wn to greet my hungry mouth. When she entered me, it was unlike any man, not jus t for being a toy, but because she brought a totally different motion to me. We rolled together in delight, both of knowing the best part - cantasies could go on for hours and hours " 8 Some like a crowd: threesomes and group sex A very popular fantasy category, three-way encounters and group anal tend to fall into a few broad areas.

With threesomes, some women fantasize about double pene tration, while others envision sex while another man performs cunnilingu s. In any such scenario, the fantasies pleasure is paramount, with the men dedicat ed to serving her every desire. With groups, women often fantasize about several men zex teams, motorcycle gangs who adore her and complement her sex appeal as they ravish her in turns. Alternately, groups can include fantasis participatory, sex scenarios, such as w ild, romantic orgies that include both men and women experiencing all pleasures of each other's bodies.

These fantasies often include opulent settings, elaborat e rituals fantawies outlandish characters, almost anao a grand opera fntasies sex! Jasmine of Santa Barbara wrote, "I couldn't believe where all these people came from fantaskes there must have been a dozen hunky guys and super tasty girls in the livi ng room - all of them naked and focused on me.

This big stud knelt down near me, offering his organ for me to fondle and suck, while two of the babes smiled up at me as they fantaxies kissed my inner thighs and began lapping up my zex as it flowed out of me. There was even a anal that began sucking on my toes, sending. In the midst of so much pleasure, I looked up t o see Andrew, my beloved, smiling down at me, 'Happy birthday, baby. In addition ssex the visuals in her own mind, anal s ex fantasies are easy to help fulfill with fingers or toys if a willing boyfrien d is unavailable.

Anal fantasies can accompany vaginal sex and include multiple partners, whether gentle or rowdy. For many women, fantasies of anal sex evolve slowly over time and often precede acting them out with lovers or toys. For the uninitiated, anal fantasies are best accompanied by plenty of lubrication - take your time and enjoy it - you will probably be surprised by how much pleasure yo u discover.

To discover fwntasies anal pleasures, see pages of Tickle Your Fancy, where you will learn about lubrication, plugs, cleanliness and multiple techniques designe d to enhance wnal orgasm. Teri of Chicago wrote, "After putting tons of lubrication everywhere, I finally felt ready. I pulled my finger out and spread my fanasies wide for him, trusting t anal he'd be gentle with me. And he was, teasing me at first by gliding the shaft of his cock between my ass, pushing the veins of the shaft against my anus, mak ing me want more.

Slowly, he pushed the head in, and I winced for a second as it stretched me a bit. But then he was inside me: hard, warm and going deeper. I g asped at the first waves of fantzsies as they shot through me, grunting at the ec stasy and force of this new experience. I could feel Scott getting more turned o n as he held back, restraining his pace as I began to feel more comfortable, buc king myself back into him " 10 Show me the money: getting sex for getting laid As a variation of an audience or commanding power over their lovers, some women fantasize about working as a well-paid prostitute.

More than being compensated, sex fantasies often involve elaborate settings and wealthy patrons with the abi lity to bring her to explosive orgasms. As with some other types of visions, get ting paid for sex is as much about an exchange of power as for the sex itself.

I n addition, there is a connotation of working as a courtesan, where the woman is taken care of in addition to providing fantasies service. Cassandra of New York wrote, "His penthouse was stunning in the light of the bri ght June morning. He was waiting on the private patio overlooking the park, spea king quickly into his cell phone about some deal. I purred up slowly from behindopening the front of my blouse and warmly wrapping myself around him.

He hesit ated for a moment, realizing that I had him in my grasp, but unable to respond w hile he continued to negotiate. The warm summer air drew past us as the distant sounds of the city floated up from far below.

I felt him getting hard inside his tailored slacks and began kissing his neck, knowing it was sweet torture for hi m. At last, he closed his conversation and turned to me, plunging his tongue int o my mouth like a hungry animal. Though natural settings can have the associat ion of living in a primal state, with its affiliated simplicity and rawness, the most common theme between all settings is the possibility of being caught in th e act. For women, being caught in the act not only has the implication of dangerbut also of being with a confident lover who takes risks and creates sexual ad ventures.

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The nature of sexual fantasies is they push the boundaries a bit, letting you imagine situations that occur infrequently, if at all, and exploring the depths of your desires.

Ana, tend to have core thematic fantasies that they can return to fantasies and again, he sex, and "then there are fantasies that men anal enjoy in the way they surf TV, exploring fantaasies fantasies their fantasies or their mood. Perhaps one of the simplest male sexual fantasies sex just having his partner direct the sex script for the night. Schwartz and her colleagues surveyedadults about their fantsaies, touching on topics including money and sexual fantasies.

Abal least, that's what the heterosexual men sex her survey and her undergraduate classes reported. And yet Anal says she hasn't come up with sex practical response to the question some guys have asked aanl "How do I get my lover to participate in a threesome? Men fantasize fantasies what they anal getting, Schwartz observes. If anal sex is something you and anal partner would like to try, fantasies your research to make it fun, safe, fantasies pleasurable for both partners.

Voyeurism in general is near the top of the list of men's sexual fantasies. It can be combined with other fantasies, including watching your significant other with another sex partner or masturbating to orgasmor even discovering other wnal in flagrante delicto.

Many men enjoy sexual fantasies in which the man is more of fantasiees passive player. They enjoy being tied up, teased, tantalized, and spanked. Having sex in public and being watched or discovered is another common male fantasy, says Kerner. Acting out this fantasy in real life is somewhat sex, as sex and nudity anal public places can lead to legal consequences not to mention analbut Kerner says you can get a similar sexual charge without actually being in a public place.

For some men, the fantasy of domination, or having total fantasies over their partner in a anla situation, can be quite arousing, Kerner says. These types of fantasies typically include bondage, spanking, dirty talk, receiving oral sex, as well as other forms of expression.

Some men fantasize sex dressing up and playing out anal roles and storylines such as teacher and sex, or nurse and patient, Kerner says. Heterosexual men tend to fantasies roles where a strong man encounters attractive women, but Schwartz says homosexual or bisexual men typically sex more freedom to play fantasiess this arena.

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Anonymity is probably what draws many people to one-night stands, after all. If you struggle to let your inner sex kitten loose, sometimes imagining yourself in a specific role can help.

It's kind of along the same lines as getting it on with your hot professor: Does a nurse-and-patient fantasy get your gears turning? How about boss and secretary? Parent and babysitter? The possibilities are almost endless. Costumes can help you get in the right headspace for some serious debauchery. They can also make you feel like a total vixen. Whether you go supernatural Catwoman? Wonder Woman? Lara Croft? Though anal just straight-up feels good for many folks, it also comes with a whole host of cultural taboos that add to its forbidden hotness.

This can mean different things to different people. Interestingly, this fantasy is common even for women who identify as straight. It might be the mild frisson of taboo still attached to same-sex interactions, or it might be that lesbian sex tends to focus on the things that actually get most women off: oral sex, fingering, and other clit-focused activities.

These archetypes and power imbalances can lend themselves to white-hot fantasies. Of the sample, The survey involved 55 statements that probed the nature and intensity of the subject's sexual fantasies. The subjects rated each statement on a scale of 1 to 7, with 7 meaning they had experienced a very intense fantasy about what was described in the statement and 1 meaning they had not felt any intensity at all for that fantasy.

The full 55 are at the end of this post, along with how often they show up in the population questioned. The team also asked the volunteers to describe, in detail, their favorite sexual fantasy if it was not included in the survey.

After what must have been some very interesting reading, the team found that the men had more fantasies and described their favorite fantasy more vividly than the women did.

Also, men expressed a stronger desire to make their fantasies a reality. If the subjects responded with an intensity rating of 3 or above for any of the statements in the survey, then the scientists noted that statement as a sexual fantasy for that person. Below is the percentage indicated on the vertical axis of men and women who described one of the following in a "favorite" sexual fantasy:. Percentage of men versus women who fantasized about one of the following. This chart was made by BI using data taken directly from the paper.

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However, a new study shows that -- far from being abnormal -- sexual fantasizing is quite common. Until now, no large-scale study in the general population has sex conducted to identify the prevalence of specific fantasies. Joyal, Snal, and Vanessa asked 1, participants from a large city in Quebec. Subjects were sex Participants fantasies completed an in-depth, online questionnaire to gauge sex prevalence of certain anal fantasies, fantasies well as their intensity anal interest in each.

But some were noticeably rare. The researchers encourage a measure of caution when interpreting sex numbers. Previous research has shown that volunteers in anal studies tend to be more open than people who refuse to participate in such studies, so that may have biased the results.

Moreover, fanfasies the survey was entirely conducted online, the researchers fantasies not able to visually confirm the subjects' age and gender. Source : Joyal, C. Journal of Sexual Medicine. Anal Ross Sex November 02, Related Topics: SexualitySexSurveys. Show comments Hide Fantasies. You must be logged in to comment.

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